Red tulips and illumination

The red tulip is the symbol of Parkinson’s Disease.

Red Tulip by 8 Eyes Photography

From the Parkinsons.org website:

Parkinson’s disease is one of a larger group of neurological conditions called motor system disorders. Historians have found evidence of the disease as far back as 5000 B.C. It was first described as “the shaking palsy” in 1817 by British doctor James Parkinson. Because of Parkinson’s early work in identifying symptoms, the disease came to bear his name. (Read more about Parkinson’s here.)

My mother-in-law was diagnosed with Parkinson’s in January 2009. The mother of one of my dearest friends also has Parkinson’s.

If you’re like me, when someone you loves comes down with a disease, you read all you can about it. You try to find new sources of hope or healing. You want to do something to help.

The incredibly talented photographer Allan Amato‘s best friend Becky has had Parkinson’s since she was 29. Allan wanted to do something to help, and so he created a series of photos documenting young Parkinson’s sufferers. He decided to use Kickstarter to fund the project. (If you’re not familiar with Kickstarter, it’s a way for artists to secure funding for their projects and must be fully-funded or no money changes hands.)

When I heard about Allan’s project, Illuminate Parkinson’s: A Travelling Gallery Show, it struck a chord. Here was someone I admire trying to spread the word about Parkinson’s:


Allan has reached his initial goal of $8000, and he’s raised the goal to $12,000 in the next 11 days. If you can, support him. There are many lovely incentives if you do.

The Illuminate Parkinson’s Gallery show will be coming to Chicago’s Century Guild later this Autumn. I supported Allan’s project on kickstarter, and I plan to attend the show to further show my support (and to admire his incredible photography in person).

I invite you to check out Illuminate Parkinson’s on Kickstarter.org, and I’ll certainly keep you apprised of information about the gallery show.

I have been so impressed by the people who have stepped up to support Allan on Illuminate Parkinson’s: famous friends and clients who posed for photographs, spread the word, and spoke up in support.

It’s an inspiring example of the power of community: Together we can achieve so much. Together we can do something to help. Together we can Illuminate Parkinson’s!

Father’s Day

Just got home from a lovely BBQ at my parents’ house, with a nice long chat over coffee. I love these chats. As a young person, we had many meaningful chats over coffee, usually on the heels of a heated disagreement or debate. As I got older, the debates became fewer in number, but fortunately we maintained the coffee conversations. I’m so grateful.

It’s Father’s Day, and I am blessed to have many father-figures and mentors in my life starting with my father, who continues to teach by example: to live a life of integrity, to stand up for what I believe in, to value the importance of family and friends, to be true to myself no matter what others may say, to honor the elders and take joy in the children, to stay connected to roots even as we reach for the stars.

Coffee with my father, Walter W. Dudycz (Photo by 8 Eyes Photography)

Thank you to the men in my life who have taught me invaluable lessons, inspired me to be more than I am, believed in me and encouraged me.

Some are still a part of my circle, others have passed on. I am better for having known you, and I am grateful.

Happy Father’s Day.

Teen fiction accused of being ‘rife with depravity’

Today my friend in Paris sent me a link to Guardian editor Alison Flood’s response to the Wall Street Jounral commentary on YA Literature. I’d recommend reading Flood’s article: Teen fiction accused of being ‘rife with depravity.’ It discusses the reactions of YA writers to the WSJ piece.

I’d also recommend this well-written response from Kyle Cassidy. I found myself nodding in agreement to all he wrote, so I’ve re-posted it here:

***Originally posted by [info]kylecassidy at The Wall Street Journal Nonsense about YA Literature***

It’s kind of like robbing a bank that keeps its cash in an unguarded shoebox in a public park to say “I’m going to take on the Wall Street Journal’s commentary on YA Literature, “Darkness Too Visible” penned by Meghan Cox Gurdon” whose inbox, no doubt, like the illustrious Journal’s is probably filling up with incredulous and angry comments from people more eloquent and informed than I. But Gurdon provides extremely low hanging fruit that it’s really hard not to swat at, beginning with the proposion that Young Adult Literature is: “all vampires and suicide and self-mutilation … dark, dark stuff” 

Which is sort of like standing in a mall parking lot and shouting “ALL CARS ARE RED!” One hardly need point out that Julie of the Wolves, Island of the Blue Dolphins, the Phantom Tollbooth, The House With the Clock in its Walls, the Chronicles of Narnia, and hundreds of other classics of yesterday are still YA literature, and are still on shelves. It also ignores modern classics like Ysabeau Wilce’s Flora Segunda which has neither vampires nor suicides, but a daring young heroine who would be excellent role model material for any daughter I had. On top of that, it ignores the fact that some of the greatest works of YA literature, like Harper Lee’s To Kill a Mockingbird are … well, dark at times.

Gurdon goes on to make the bizarre claim that “…40 years ago, no one had to contend with young-adult literature because there was no such thing”, claiming, somewhat incredulously, that it began in 1967 with the publication of The Outsiders, this of course discounts not just Tom Sawyer and Huckleberry Finn, perhaps the two most widely known books written for a young adult audience in the English Language, but also books like Kidnapped and Treasure Island which adolescents were reading for generations before Outsiders author S.E. Hinton was born. On my shelf right now I have a book called Six Girls by Fanny Belle Irving published in 1882 — I haven’t read it, but I can assure you it’s audience is teenage girls who might also be reading Little Women or Jane Austen. (In fact, the article’s own sidebar recommends the 1943 novel A Tree Grows In Brooklyn for kids.) All this serves to suggest that Gurdon doesn’t have a clue what she’s talking about — that she hasn’t even taken the time to read the Wikipedia page about the topic she’s writing on, and that carelessness suggests that we should take everything else she has to say with a grain of salt.

Gurdon then goes on to criticize a series of books individually, she takes time to specifically complain about Jackie Morse Kessler’s book “Rage” which involves a girl who turns to self injury after being the victim of “a sadistic sexual prank”. When we live in a world where teenage girls cut themselves at prodigious rates (and this is nothing new, it’s been happening for hundreds of years) The Wall Street Journal thinks that we shouldn’t have books for teens that discuss it. Gurdon takes to task an editor who laments having to cut language from a book in order to get it in schools as though it was a conversation never held between Mark Twain and his editor.

But this is simply the history of books and literature, it is the way things progress and regress and progress again. In the late 1800’s Arthur Winfield began an extremely popular series of books for young readers called The Rover Boys. [info]trillian_stars and I scored a complete collection of these a couple of years ago and found them so offensive, so sexist, so racist, so classist, as to be nearly unreadable — the best-selling morality tales of the late 1800’s and early 1900’s were all about making fun of the poor & underprivileged, those with accents, or dark skin, or those not able to get into the same prep school. The Rover Boys play vicious pranks on their school mates who are fat or who speak with a lisp, and they succeed and persevere because they’re rich and they’re entitled to and, hey, it’s all in good fun.

I realized while trying to read these that YA literature reflects the times as they are and that they will also, occasionally, attempt to grasp the times that Aren’t Yet and pull them closer. If there’s a glut of vampire books on the market now there may not be in fifteen years. Of these, many will fade into obscurity and some, the ones that strive, will remain — Darwin will police the stacks — and in the meantime, the literature will evolve. Things people look at as taboo in one era (women wearing pants) don’t warrant a second glance in another. YA literature is one of the mechanisms by which children learn what types of adults they will become. They likely won’t learn to become vampires, but they may learn that they’re not the only teenage girls who have a compulsion to cut themselves, or that they’re not the only boys who are attracted to other boys, or they may learn how to build a house in a tree if they ever get stranded on an island.

There are many YA books out there — some of them good, and some of them bad. Some of them I’d be happy to let my (theoretical) children read, and some that I think would be a waste of their time.

I feel compelled to quote Heavy Metal Rocker Dee Snider who, when called before the PMRC (Parents Music Resource Comission) in 1985 by a very clueless Al Gore to testify about the harm rock music caused teens, schooled the Senator in parenting in one of the most one sided smackdowns since Lloyd Benson told Dan Quayle that he was, in fact, “No Jack Kennedy”.

Senatore GORE: [Should a parent have] To sit down and listen to every song on the album?

Mr. SNIDER. Well, if they are really concerned about it I think that they have to.

Senator GORE. Do you think it is reasonable to expect parents to do that?

Mr. SNIDER. Being a parent is not a reasonable thing. It is a very hard thing. I am a parent and I know.

I don’t know what’s more embarrassing, that Congress would waste tax dollars on such a farce, or that the senior Senator from Tennessee got his ass handed to him in a debate by a guy who appeared on his album cover wearing shoulder pads, spandex pants, and pink lace-up boots waving a bloody soup bone.

I’m not sure why the Wall Street Journal would bother to print such nonsense, I can only hope it is a result of laying off so much of the editorial staff over the past few years rather than policy.

In summary:

  • Being a parent is not supposed to be easy.
  • It’s not the publishing industry’s job to decide what to print based on what you like to read.
  • Not all books are good books.
  • Every single book that you liked as a child you can still get for your own kids, if not from your local bookstore, then from ebay.
  • Good literature stays around, the bad stuff is transient.
  • At some point your child will probably read a book that you don’t think is good that will change their lives in a good way.
  • Ranting to the Wall Street Journal that YA literature sucks when you apparently know nothing about YA literature is a sad attempt at making a shortcut to responsible parenting.
  • Ask a librarian, they’re there to help.